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My sudden acceptance of the divorce caught my husband on wrong foot.. he was flabbergasted by my response .Guess the D word and calculations were part of his strategy to bring my unruly self to place ...haha.Hard Luck Mr....
Despite spending so many years together under one roof you couldn't read my mind..Mere IRONY. I was very very hurt inside which made me give it all away after much thought.For me my self worth and self respect counted thousand times more than the worthless relationship I was made to suffer into. Women are most oftenly taken for granted by their spouses and easily swept away like some piece of dirt. I could see the woman power in me rising clearly and was very proud of this ...for me it was over the minute I was handed my worth on a piece of paper...the last straw was already drawn.
The other party suddenly developed cold feet and spontaneous visits to astrologers followed citing family unacceptance of the situation ( funnily though which had risen due to someone's own ill will wasn't even counted ) . Thankfully though all the so called ASTROPUNDITS confirmed the impending separation , which made my side stronger. I informed my folks my decision much to their shocked responses and trying to calm me down for compromise efforts. His folks were to be informed by him, as per the minimum convos we would have on this subject. March dawned and I was clear that I will not be sharing the roof with this man whom I could no longer call my own, He had himself relinquished the right to do so .So the house hunting began every weekend armed by my 2 strong supports( unfortunately they weren't my parents) with whose help I could muster enough courage to walk out of this doomed marriage.Thank God that I was an independent working woman and could take this brave decision..I shudder at the thought of becoming a doormat and destined to my fate if at all I was financially dependent on my spouse.
The exam fever caught up at home with my kid's final exam rolling off...Infact trying to keep the house enviroment sane was the biggest exam for me , since there was lot of relationship confusion in her mind in relation to us as she could see minimalistic communication happening between us . Am so sorry dear daughter to put you through this.. but as the adage goes ;both the wet and dry are caught in forest fires ..they spare none .My spouse played the emotional card to the best since he was caught carrying by my kid on the eve of her last paper. She was inconsolable , with me being away at work, my mom rushed to her rescue trying to balance the little ones's emotions .I was helpless but determined to take my kid away from this unharmonious surrounding she was being forced to live in.I sat and explained to her in her own little way why mom and dad can't stay together, guess she understood my predicament and firmly stood by me by wanting to stay put with me come what may.Thanks so much for the understanding my baby..you multiplied my strength.
The countdown to the new house had begun, the feeling of me going away was clearly not sinking in him as yet, guess what was he waiting for . GUYs pleaes take us seriously..we aint always gonna be bending under pressure.we infact become more ductile:)
Waiting for the next move with bated breath...
Tc
LOVE
Neha
My sudden acceptance of the divorce caught my husband on wrong foot.. he was flabbergasted by my response .Guess the D word and calculations were part of his strategy to bring my unruly self to place ...haha.Hard Luck Mr....
Despite spending so many years together under one roof you couldn't read my mind..Mere IRONY. I was very very hurt inside which made me give it all away after much thought.For me my self worth and self respect counted thousand times more than the worthless relationship I was made to suffer into. Women are most oftenly taken for granted by their spouses and easily swept away like some piece of dirt. I could see the woman power in me rising clearly and was very proud of this ...for me it was over the minute I was handed my worth on a piece of paper...the last straw was already drawn.
The other party suddenly developed cold feet and spontaneous visits to astrologers followed citing family unacceptance of the situation ( funnily though which had risen due to someone's own ill will wasn't even counted ) . Thankfully though all the so called ASTROPUNDITS confirmed the impending separation , which made my side stronger. I informed my folks my decision much to their shocked responses and trying to calm me down for compromise efforts. His folks were to be informed by him, as per the minimum convos we would have on this subject. March dawned and I was clear that I will not be sharing the roof with this man whom I could no longer call my own, He had himself relinquished the right to do so .So the house hunting began every weekend armed by my 2 strong supports( unfortunately they weren't my parents) with whose help I could muster enough courage to walk out of this doomed marriage.Thank God that I was an independent working woman and could take this brave decision..I shudder at the thought of becoming a doormat and destined to my fate if at all I was financially dependent on my spouse.
The exam fever caught up at home with my kid's final exam rolling off...Infact trying to keep the house enviroment sane was the biggest exam for me , since there was lot of relationship confusion in her mind in relation to us as she could see minimalistic communication happening between us . Am so sorry dear daughter to put you through this.. but as the adage goes ;both the wet and dry are caught in forest fires ..they spare none .My spouse played the emotional card to the best since he was caught carrying by my kid on the eve of her last paper. She was inconsolable , with me being away at work, my mom rushed to her rescue trying to balance the little ones's emotions .I was helpless but determined to take my kid away from this unharmonious surrounding she was being forced to live in.I sat and explained to her in her own little way why mom and dad can't stay together, guess she understood my predicament and firmly stood by me by wanting to stay put with me come what may.Thanks so much for the understanding my baby..you multiplied my strength.
The countdown to the new house had begun, the feeling of me going away was clearly not sinking in him as yet, guess what was he waiting for . GUYs pleaes take us seriously..we aint always gonna be bending under pressure.we infact become more ductile:)
Waiting for the next move with bated breath...
Tc
LOVE
Neha
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